Fertility Experts Divided over Benefits of Freezing Eggs Cryogenically

Public broadcaster NHK aired a current affairs program on fertility in 2012 that caused a stir nationwide. Titled “The Impact of Aging Eggs,” the program warned viewers that women in their 30s and 40s were flirting with disappointment by delaying any attempt to conceive until they are older.

The problem, however, is that many women in modern times simply aren’t ready to have children in their 20s and early 30s, ages that fertility experts usually say is the best time for a woman to conceive. Many women in this age group are still in the early stages of their career, while a significant proportion are also likely to be looking to wait a while before settling down into married life.

To get around this conundrum, some doctors in Japan have recently begun to offer oocyte cryopreservation, a procedure in which a woman’s eggs are frozen cryogenically. The procedure was historically only offered in Japan to women suffering from severe health problems.

By freezing healthy human eggs that have been harvested from an individual who is still relatively young, a woman can postpone trying to have her first child for a few years and then try to conceive through in vitro fertilization when she is older.

While some women welcome the newfound freedom such a procedure provides, medical experts are divided on the issue and some have warned that it only encourages women to delay giving birth.

Minako Saito was a successful businesswoman who used to work in the financial sector. Saito, who wishes to use a pseudonym in order to protect her privacy, lost her job when she was 36 and the sudden change of circumstances gave her a new perspective.

“I didn’t have a boyfriend or a job and I didn’t have any money,” Saito says. “All of a sudden, I realized I had nothing left — except a lot of time to think. It dawned on me that I might end up being alone for the rest of my life, and realized that I wanted to have children.”

Saito’s parents had seen the NHK program on aging eggs and suggested she give it a go. She consented and, in the spring of 2013, Saito froze four of her eggs at an organization called Repro Self Bank, which has since changed its name to Princess Bank. She was 37 years old.

After undergoing counseling and taking a course of hormone pills to create healthy eggs, four eggs were harvested from her ovaries. The procedure cost about ¥800,000.

“My parents and I felt a lot more assured after the procedure,” Saito says. “It’s basically insurance. I didn’t want to close the door on the possibility of being able to have children in the future.”

Lack of legislation

A woman has about 2 million eggs when she is born. Unlike sperm, which are generated continuously over the course of a man’s lifetime, women’s eggs decrease with age. Fertility experts believe women have about 200,000 to 300,000 eggs when they hit puberty, and just 25,000 or so when they are 35 years old.

Women who wish to have their eggs frozen typically take hormone pills to ensure multiple healthy eggs are created. Ovulation-inducing drugs are then used to establish a manageable timetable before they are harvested and frozen in liquid nitrogen at minus 196 degrees Celsius.

Until recently, the Japan Society of Obstetrics and Gynecology specified that only cancer sufferers and people facing serious health problems that could affect their reproductive organs were allowed to undergo oocyte cryopreservation.

A national law on reproductive technology has yet to be approved by the Diet. In theory, therefore, the procedure is not illegal if a woman has no health issues. However, fertility clinics usually follow the guidelines issued by the society or risk expulsion.

Nevertheless, the Japan Society for Reproductive Medicine, another influential organization in the industry, issued a set of guidelines in November 2013 that permitted healthy women to undergo oocyte cryopreservation. Under the guidelines, the organization does not recommend women aged 40 or older to undergo the procedure. Moreover, women should also use any harvested eggs before their 45th birthday.

At Princess Bank, about 140 women have had their eggs frozen. One hundred and ten of these women have no illness.

But Noriko Kagawa, the 38-year-old head of Princess Bank, expresses mixed emotions over whether to recommend the procedure to healthy women.

Kagawa used to work at as an embryologist at Kato Ladies Clinic, a famous fertility center in Tokyo, where she says she was dismayed to find the average age of women seeking treatment was 39 years old.

“It was our job to help women conceive through science but you can’t help eggs that are aging,” Kagawa says. “Most of these women didn’t even know they were too old to undergo such procedures.”

It’s best to freeze a woman’s eggs while she is still young, Kagawa says, and still the patient should still think about trying to conceive as soon as she can.

“I know I am contradicting myself when I say I don’t recommend this (procedure),” she says. “It’s sort of like a good-luck charm. … By going through this procedure, a woman becomes aware that she needs to find a partner and conceive as soon as possible.”

Older women typically face more problems trying to conceive, and simply having an egg that has been frozen is ultimately no guarantee of success.

The procedure also carries a few risks. Kagawa says 1 in 100,000 women experience complications during the extraction of eggs with a needle. The hormone treatment may also damage a woman’s ovaries.

“The procedure isn’t for everybody,” says Kagawa, who froze her own eggs several times between the ages of 31 and 34. “However, I don’t see why those who have been informed of all the details shouldn’t try if they still wish to continue.”

Medical experts such as Yasunori Yoshimura, a professor emeritus of obstetrics and gynecology at Keio University School of Medicine, express reservations about adopting such an approach.

“More women will conceive when they are older, which isn’t good for them,” Yoshimura says, adding that the risk of complications for older women and their babies is much higher.

Yoshimura was head of the Japan Society for Reproductive Medicine when it issued a guideline on oocyte cryopreservation irrespective of marital status.

Some members of the society had expressed concern that issuing the guideline might suggest it was, in fact, advising women to undergo such a procedure. In the end, however, they agreed that it was better to draft a guideline than do nothing at all.

The society’s Ethics Committee issued a statement at the time of making the guideline public, clearly stating it did not recommend women to choose oocyte cryopreservation. Media reports, however, stressed that the society  had “approved” oocyte cryopreservation for healthy, single women as well.

Yoshimura notes the guideline was not meant to encourage women to go through the procedure.

“However, we decided that the benefits (of drafting a guideline on oocyte cryopreservation) outweighed the risks,” Yoshimura says.

“Those who are interested will hopefully learn about the risks involved,” he says. “The guidelines will also prevent clinics from doing these procedures under the radar.”

Toshio Hara, head of Hara Medical Clinic in Tokyo’s Shibuya Ward, froze eggs for single women who weren’t suffering from any health issues between 2010 and 2012.

“I wanted to help women choose when to give birth so that they don’t have to interrupt their careers,” Hara says. “I wanted to make sure they weren’t forced to give up the notion of conceiving and giving birth.”

The procedure on average costs at least ¥1 million. Contracts to keep the eggs at the clinic were renewed annually until a woman turned 45.

Hara says he explained the benefits and risks of oocyte cryopreservation to the female patients.

The recovery rate of eggs that have been frozen depends on a woman’s age, according to data compiled by the clinic. Eggs of women who are 31 or younger have a 95 percent rate of recovery, whereas those of women who are 41 or older have a 50 percent rate of recovery.

One hundred and sixty-seven women — the majority of which were in their late-30s to early-40s — expressed an interest in oocyte cryopreservation at the clinic over the two years but only 32 went through with the procedure. They were all single at the time, and not one of them ended up finding a partner with whom they could use their eggs.

In August 2012, the clinic stopped accepting new clients for oocyte cryopreservation.

“The women who came to my clinic were in their late-30s, single and had no immediate plans to get married,” Hara says. “The clinic had turned into a refuge of sorts. It wasn’t what I had imagined in the beginning at all.”

And that’s not the only problem. Hara is more recently encountering women with frozen eggs who refuse to allow him to dispose of them when they turn 45 — effectively reneging on their contractual promise.

Hara says he set the limit at 45 because the possibility of conceiving after that age is virtually zero. What’s more, the health risks for both mother and child increase considerably after a woman turns 45.

Some women have taken their eggs to another egg bank.

“I think a woman should be able to choose whether to freeze her eggs or not,” Hara says.

“At the same time, however, she must understand that she can’t have it all,” he says. “There are certain rules she needs to follow.”

Sex education is key

Oocyte cryopreservation has recently been stirring controversy in both the United States and Japan.

Last autumn, Facebook and Apple in the United States made headlines for offering benefits to female employees to undergo oocyte cryopreservation.

In Japan, meanwhile, the city of Urayasu in Chiba Prefecture announced in February that it would spend a total of ¥90 million over three years on a joint research project with Juntendo University’s Urayasu Hospital to promote research on technologies to freeze and store eggs. This is the first time a local government has agreed to effectively subsidize oocyte cryopreservation.

The move has been criticized by some experts, who argue that public funding suggests the procedure already has the government’s seal of approval.

But Hideki Shintaku, head of the city of Urayasu’s Health and Welfare Division, says the fund is only a small part of Mayor Hideki Matsuzaki’s grand plan to tackle the declining birthrate.

Matasuzaki has created a fund worth ¥3 billion to, among other things, provide subsidies for men and women undergoing fertility treatment; increase the number of kodomoen, a combination of daycare and kindergarten; and establish a special allowance for high school and university students who have a 3.8 or higher grade point average and come from financially strained homes.

“There is a gap between when people want to have children and when they can have children,” Shintaku says. “Many women are right in the middle of building their careers when they are most fertile but we want to give them more options.”

Shintaku says that it is important for the city to be involved in order to help educate young people on how difficult it is to conceive once they grow older. Like the rest of Japan, many Urayasu residents are going through difficult fertility treatments because they are too old to conceive naturally.

The city of Urayasu considers this to be a long-term test to see whether or not oocyte cryopreservation can really contribute to curbing the declining birthrate.

“By providing government funding, we can keep an eye on the project and also offer support to residents,” Shintaku says. “Who knows? Oocyte cryopreservation could be a common procedure in 10 years time.”

Juntendo University is expected to begin holding seminars this summer for women aged between 20 and 34 who are interested in the procedure. These seminars will provide extensive information on reproductive issues. Women who decide to proceed must have their application approved by the university’s Ethic’s Committee. The procedures are likely to begin in about six months time.

Iwaho Kikuchi, who heads the project team at Juntendo University, says he has been tasked with finding physical evidence to support the benefits of oocyte cryopreservation.

Kikuchi says he must tread carefully, however, because the Japan Society of Obstetrics and Gynecology is poised to announce that it doesn’t recommend oocyte cryopreservation for healthy women.

“There is no evidence on the benefits of oocyte cryopreservation yet,” Kikuchi says, “but rules should be made based on evidence.”

Most medical experts agree that a major review of the country’s sex education program, which focuses on contraception and sexually transmitted diseases, needs to take place.

Young people are not taught about the best time for women to conceive, nor do they learn about the difficulties of having children when they are older.

Kikuchi says the oocyte cryopreservation research shouldn’t necessarily focus on the benefits and risks of the procedure itself. Instead, it should look at a broader picture that also covers fertility treatment, infertility prevention and education.

“It’s about changing awareness,” Kikuchi says. “I think oocyte cryopreservation gives us an opportunity to teach the younger generation about how difficult it can be to conceive later in life. If they learn this now, their life plan could be very different.”

During the process of having her eggs frozen, Saito met her current husband through a match-making event. To her own surprise, she got married and became pregnant naturally with her first child within a few months.

Now, at 39, she is eight months pregnant with her second child. She still hasn’t used any of the eggs that have been frozen, but is keeping them in case she wishes to have a third child.

“I am so glad I did this and I have no regrets, even though I might end up not using any of them,” Saito says. “A woman should be able to do this if she wants. The decision, and the responsibility for that decision, should be left up to her.”

http://www.japantimes.co.jp/life/2015/06/27/lifestyle/fertility-experts-divided-benefits-freezing-eggs-cryogenically/#.VZJvpPVOP3h

Should women be advised to have babies in their 20s?

In recent weeks, a number of consultant gynaecologists have spoken out about encouraging women to have babies while still in their 20s, rather than waiting until their 30s, when the risks of infertility and possible medical complications are higher. Some have suggested including education on this in the school curriculum.

There is a strong tendency in Ireland for couples to wait to have children until they are in their 30s, and this was reflected in recently released figures that women in Ireland are the oldest in Europe to give birth for the first time.

Speaking about the recent media coverage on the matter, Dr Moya McMenamin, Consultant Gynaecologist at Waterstone Clinic, said: “There are many reasons why people postpone having children, many of which are very valid. However, we cannot ignore the fact that fertility in women declines with increasing age. Furthermore, IVF and other assisted reproduction methods are far more successful when embarked on at an earlier age, but there does tend to be a lack of awareness and education about this.

“We would strongly encourage Irish couples to start thinking about having a family at an earlier age in order to give themselves the best chance of success,” she said.

Dr McMenamin added that she would recommend raising awareness about fertility among young women and men and would strongly advise young adults to check their fertility as part of routine health check.

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Pelvic Ultrasound and Antral Follicle Count – a detailed transvaginal ultrasound scan assessing the uterus and ovaries for any abnormalities and quantifying the number of follicles in each ovary (follicles contain immature eggs), indicating ovarian activity.

Consultation – A detailed consultation with a fertility specialist where a full medical and fertility history will be taken and lifestyle factors will be addressed. Further investigation will be arranged where necessary and advice on increasing your chances of natural conception.

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Sunshine boosts fertility by a third, study finds

Couples hoping to conceive may find that heading to sunnier climes may improve their chances, according to experts.

Fertilisation rates, live births, and the number of eggs all improved after women were in the sun.

Scientists studied the IVF results of 6,000 women over a six-year-old period, and analysed them alongside the weather conditions in the month before women started treatment.

During the least sunny periods, live birth rates were 14 per cent, but this figure rose to 19 per cent when the weather improved, The Telegraph reported.  

Dr Frank Vandekerckhove, a Belgian researcher from the University Hospital Ghent’s Centre for Reproductive Medicinbe presented the study at the European Society of Human Reproduction, and told the conference that sunshine, high temperatures and the absence of rain made treatments more effective.

He added that while the study involved IVF patients, the results also apply to women who want to get pregnantwithout assistance, The Huffington Post reported.

In months with around four hours of sunshine a day, fertility was boosted by one third, however the figure stopped rising at six hours.

Women were 35 per cent more likely to have successful IVF treatments if they were exposed to pleasant weather a month before, rather than at the time of conception.

Vitamin D was likely a key factor in the positive hike in fertility rates as it affects the quality of eggs produced, while the hormone melatonin, which helps the reproductive cycle, was also a factor.

Prof Charles Kingsland, from Hewitt Fertility Centre, at Liverpool Women’s Hospital, told the Telegraph that the study raises interesting points about how couples often get “bogged down” by “pills and potions”.

“Often all that is needed are the basics. Namely, good diet, no smoking, reduction in alcohol, relaxation, sunshine, be happy and positive – oh and finally, occasional sexual intercourse,” he said.

Sunlight also helps men’s fertility, another recent study showed.

The research revealed that sperm is more active in the middle months of the year, and twice as active in July and August compared to January.

Kashmira Gander  

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/sunshine-boosts-fertility-by-a-third-study-finds-10333094.html

Dr Waterstone dicusses Pre-implantation Genetic Diagnosis

Ireland AM met with Dr Waterstone and Emma and John O’Connor along with daughter Megan who became the first baby in the world to be born free of a fatal condition, mucolipidosis, as a result of Pre-Implantation Genetic Diagnosis.

It is the first reported incidence in the world of successful PGD using karyomapping in the case of mucolipidosis. Karyomapping is a new technique that has transformed the field of PGD due to its rapid and robust method of detecting a wide range of genetic diseases in embryos.

Eating Fruit and Vegetables can Boost Fertility

By Laura Donnelly, Health Editor, The Telegraph

Eating fruit and vegetables could boost the chance of having a baby – but men are much “lazier” than women at taking such advice, researchers have warned.

Regular consumption of fruit, vegetables and pulses was associated with far higher levels of fertility. Non-smokers and those who avoided or limited alcohol were also more likely to conceive.

The findings, presented at the European Society of Human Reproduction and Embryology’s annual meeting in Lisbon, showed that overall, women were more likely than men to have a healthy diet.

In findings described as “striking and statistically significant” the research found 55 per cent of fertile men consumed fruit five times a week compared with 73 per cent of fertile women.

Fertile women were also more likely than men to eat eggs regularly.

Researcher Eugenio Ventimiglia, from IRCCS Ospedale San Raffaele, Milan, said: “Women are more keen on being careful than men. We have to try to convince men that diet and lifestyle is an issue.”

He said men often did not think their own habits would influence the chances of conception, and were reluctant to seek medical advice when struggling with fertility.

“It’s always the wife who prompts the investigation,” he said. “Men are lazier and are keen to rely on the women.”

He said that anyone trying to start a family should adopt a healthy lifestyle in the hope of increasing their chances of success. Experts said fruits and vegetables appeared to improve sperm quality because they contain anti oxidants, while those eating plenty of fruit and vegetables were less likely to eat fatty foods and red meat, which can reduce fertility.

Allan Pacey, Professor of Andrology, University of Sheffield, said there was now “a wealth of evidence” to show that a good intake of fruit and vegetables could help sperm quality.

But he said men had been given too little advice about the impact of diet on fertility. “I think most of our pre-conception advice to date has been primarily aimed at women (take your folic acid ..etc) and men have really been missed out of the public health message,” he said.

“Men are generally less interested than women in how their diet links to health, and in particular issues of fertility and infertility,” he said.

Prof Pacey said men who wanted to start a family should try to get five portions of fresh fruit and vegetables each day.

“When push comes to shove, I think all men inherently know what foods and lifestyle habits are good and which of them are bad,” he said. “But sometimes they need to hear it from someone who isn’t their partner.”

The study compared the daily habits of 1134 men and women who had a baby in the previous 12 months were compared with those of participants who tried and failed to conceive during the same period.

While 65 per cent of fertile study participants ate fruit every day, the figure was just 51 per cent among those suffering from infertility.

In total, 51 per cent of those who had succesfully conceived ate vegetables every day, the figure was just 47.8 per cent among those suffering from infertility.

Those who were fertile were also more likely to eat pulses regularly and less likely to have taken recreational drugs.

Those who conceived were much more likely to have shunned alcohol all together.

Just 42.5 per cent of those who conceived drank alcohol at all, compared with 55.4 per cent of those who failed to conceive. Infertile participants were almost twice as likely to drink heavily than those who were fertile, with 9.1 per cent of those who failed to conceive drinking more than two litres of alcohol a week – compared to 5.5 per cent of those who were fertile.

Coffee drinking was also more common among the infertile, with 90.6 per cent consuming the drink compared with 83.7 per cent of those who had conceived.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/11676806/Eating-fruit-and-vegetables-can-boost-fertility-but-men-rarely-take-the-advice.html

AMH Testing Available

What is AMH?

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The blood test for AMH can be carried out on any day of the cycle (as opposed to FSH which must be measured on cycle day 3). Levels do not fluctuate from one cycle to another, making AMH a more reliable measure of ovarian reserve than FSH.

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What supplement advice can you give female patients trying to conceive?

While there are now numerous supplement preparations available commercially to women trying to conceive, no food or drug supplement has been proven beyond doubt to increase conception rates in female infertility.

A 2013 Cochrane review of 28 randomised controlled trials found antioxidants not to be effective for increasing rates of live birth or clinical pregnancy. Further evidence from prospective randomised controlled trials is required before recommending specific “fertility supplements” for the female patient.

It is recommended that women aiming to conceive:

Take 400μg folic acid daily as early as two months prior to conception and for the first three months of pregnancy – this has been shown to reduce the incidence of neural tube defects by up to 70%. A higher dose of 5mg should be taken by women with a personal or family history of neural tube defect, women with diabetes or women taking antiepileptic medications

Vitamin D supplementation should be given to those women with dark skin or limited sun exposure to minimise the risk of vitamin D deficiency in babies, which is associated with rickets and convulsions

And above all, maintain a healthy weight, that is aim for a BMI between 20 and 25kg/m2, by doing regular exercise and having a balanced and nutritious diet

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New Diagnostic Test for Inherited Disorders

Staff at Waterstone Clinic recently announced that an Irish couple, who have one daughter with mucolipidosis, a rare and life-limiting genetic condition, delivered a baby, Megan, unaffected by the condition as a result of pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (PGD).

It is the first reported incidence in the world of successful PGD using karyomapping in the case of mucolipidosis. Karyomapping is a new technique that has transformed the field of PGD due to its rapid and robust method of detecting a wide range of genetic diseases in embryos.

Chris Donoghue from Newstalk Breakfast recently interviewed the O’Connor’s, to listen to the interview click HERE

Keeping Hope

On New Year’s Day 2012, Colin finished chemo, battle-weary but still alive. Heidi was delighted to have Daddy back at home, though knew there were times she would have to be quiet, to let him sleep. To let him recover. At first he was seen every six weeks, then three months, then every six. Each time the all-clear.

Now it was time to rebuild our lives, try for the child we so longed for. All through Colin’s treatment, I kept looking forward, readying myself for IVF. I kept in shape, avoided alcohol, watched my diet and ate only fresh produce to optimise my chances of fertility. Aware of the emotional turmoil that the hormone treatment can cause, I underwent a course of Chinese acupuncture to prepare my body and my mind for what was to come. Throughout the daily injecting I stayed focused on the end result. It was all a necessary step on the road to achieving our heart’s desire – a little brother or sister for Heidi. A new baby, a new life, to help rebuild the family after the trauma of Colin’s illness. I watched Heidi playing with her teddies, talking to her favourite dolls, telling them how she wanted to have a little baby sister or brother. And I was determined to do whatever it took.

So every day, twice a day, I injected hormones into my uterus, to make the lining of the womb ready for our implanted embryo. I decided to tell all my family, friends and work colleagues, as we wanted to be open about the whole process. Talking took away any stigma attached to this intimate procedure and that helped with the emotional piece of the jigsaw.

We knew success rates were low. We knew most people had to undergo many costly cycles of treatment, sometimes without a successful outcome. But we also knew that for some it worked. That was what we focused on. The 17 straws of sperm were thawed and monitored closely. One by one they failed to fertilise. Sixteen of the 17 didn’t make it. It was all down to the last one. Our only chance. But one is all you need. One healthy embryo. And the last one successfully attached itself to my egg and fertilised. A huge achievement in itself. The transfer was done. One hurdle down. Now all we could do was wait. Two whole weeks, they told us. Two weeks and then we would know if we had surmounted the next hurdle.

Of all the things we had been through, this waiting was the hardest. Waking each morning wondering. Was the embryo taking? Did I feel any different? Was I pregnant? Could I possibly be? The days were interminable, the hours, the minutes crawling by. Luckily Colin was back at work, making a good recovery. And I too was busy with demanding projects at the office. But still the days dragged. A week passed, eight days, nine. On day twelve we could wait no longer. Colin bought a bagful of testing kits, standard, early, digital, all kinds. The first showed a faint blue line. We were too scared to rely on it. Maybe a false positive. Five or six more we did over the next two days, the blue line strengthening each time. When the doctor confirmed that yes, indeed, I was pregnant, I cried. Colin cried. I think even the doctor cried. It felt like we had won the Lotto. Our luck had turned. All the emotional and physical preparation had paid off. And with Colin getting stronger each day, it seemed almost too good to be true. At 20 weeks we underwent a detailed scan. A beautiful little baby, strong heartbeat, perfect limbs, moving gently in its amniotic cocoon. We were beside ourselves with happiness. Now it was time to share the joy. Parents and friends alike were delighted with our news. And once again, all we could do was wait. Wait and hope.

At eight months, the doctors discovered that the baby was breech, with no sign of it moving to a correct position. So I was promptly summoned to the hospital. They weren’t going to let me out of their sight. Once again grandparents stepped up to the mark and kept the home fires ticking over. Heidi loved all the attention and spent her free time making cards and posters to welcome the new baby home. It was a tense few weeks, but I kept the goal in my sights. Every day was another day closer to seeing our precious baby.

And finally the day arrived. I had to be induced but I didn’t care. Whatever it took. And every contraction was a gift. As the waves of pain swept over me, I thought only of my baby’s journey into this world. And nothing, absolutely nothing can compare to that undiluted joy of giving the final push, hearing that longed for cry and holding my little baby girl Pippa on my chest. A head of red hair, the only grandchild to inherit Granny’s beautiful auburn locks. Our miracle baby. A sister for Heidi.

Now nearly two, Pippa is a bundle of mischief, a partner in crime for Heidi, a daily blessing in our lives. And having come through so much, Colin’s illness, the IVF, has only made us stronger. As people. As a couple. More appreciative of every moment in our lives. Every time Pippa woke at night, I didn’t mind. Every time she cried, every time she wouldn’t sleep when we were dog-tired, I didn’t mind. And we know, Colin and I, that things can go wrong and do go wrong, but our challenges have made us stronger. And we are eternally grateful to all those people who travelled the road with us, helping us to where we are now. Colin’s mother and my parents have been amazing, the Waterstone Clinic so helpful, supportive and easy to talk to. We wake every day and thank the doctors who looked after Colin so well, and continue to monitor and look after him. And we look at our two girls, Heidi and Pippa, and we face the future with hearts full of gratitude and hope.

In conversation with Justine Carbery.

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